Sex and The Southern Belle

A Recap FEELING Happy. I am truly happy. Kendrick Lamar's "I". It's my theme for 2015 Like my life is just getting started That's a good thing. Proud to be all the things I am in my life: wife, daughter, daughter-in-law Wigs. I am so into them now which is wild. I have my locs still but I do like the change Makeup. Always will love a good lipstick. And aside from most shoes...the only thing that will never "not" (I know that's a double negative) fit. D'angelo has come to save Black Music and Jazmine Sullivan will soon follow Making Wish  Lists on random websites. I mean I will prob never buy half this stuff BUT it allows me to "shop" w/ out spending money. SPeaking of which... Like I am making some great strides financially. Lots of sacrifice but it's paying off. Nude Lipstick DARK lipstick. Like super plummy Makeup Dupes..because I am cheap Supporting black businesses. Esp black  beauty Lines. Being married. I...

(It's going to be great) FEELING I am incredibly childish for feeling this but...........Ms Donna Goudeau . We gonna hold you down, sis! We know you are legally blind. How to Get Away with Murder. Viola is all that! My wedding photos. They are so bomb (although I haven't seen the rest of the). Thanks Montoya and crew! The Read. I listen to those fools religiously...... Honeymoons like mine. I wish I was there. Unlimited food and drink. Jacuzzis....EVERYTHING So many weddings over the past couple of months All these new movies coming out. Dear White People. The Equalizer.. Top Five (w/ Chris Rock) Couple Dates. Apparently we are acceptable to hang out with as a unit again. Going to see Dear White People w/ another couple. My new hairstylist. She's everything and like an older sister. The best. Makeup organization. My husband thought I was nuts for obsessiing over it. But anyway...take a look at my collection over on my style blog HERE. All the a...

(He sure does like coming home to my "rump roast"!! ) FEELING new job. more money.  blessed. loved.  giddy: there is something about when someone you love just says something that carries you throughout the day. When you think you look like crap, and he goes "Have I told you how beautiful you are today?" like I am dreaming. I swear...I wait for God to snap me out this happiness and dreams fulfilled...not so far *pinches self*....yeah...not dreaming :) Our (now infamous) BitStrip wars. My fiance' and I have no sense. LOL. (above is just one of my favs. A friend gave us an idea to use them as Table Numbers or as a flip book for the wedding. Maybe...not a bad idea though) new friends. It's FOOTBALL pre-season! YEEK! a new home. a new place to call "our own"............ the tears in my mother's eyes as she took my face in her little hands  in the Bridal Salon and said "Dear..is this your dress??" sleeping in and doing ...

FEELING that I am losing weight that Valentine's Day is now a weekend. At peace. All the chapters  in my life that need to be closed, after this weekend, will officially be closed. Like this moment right now.........is maybe the happiest I've been and it havs VERY little to do w/ a new relationship. More like a renewed faith in myself that my dissertation may come to me with much more eases I  like wearing wigs now. I am lazy with my makeup now. Its now just brows, mascara and sometimes lipstick. I only get jazzed on the weekends. I am the same way w/ my clothes. It's leggings almost every weekend. *sigh* BUT...I do like the ease of wigs. I love my little side of ATL.  I love Pinterest a little too much Same goes for Greek Yogurt. I eat it everyday in some form or fashion. Weight lifting. Counting down to vacation with my beau the ability to freeze your eggs Brazilian Porn The idea of a new stadium here in ATL my new Keurig coffee...

FEELING ...like my 2012 was so full of bliss that I was unable to contain  ...that despite some sad times... The good outweighed the bad ... 2013 will be all about INCREASe! It's going to happen to me! Just you wait and see! ...that hearts, souls and bodies will be healed. People will walk. The blind will see. Weight will be lifted. All will be well...in the upcoming year. I can't believe my studies will be over soon..Dr. M or Dr. M-R (lol) or Dr. R or whatever it will be is happening. (Oh I hope you caught that last one...lol) like i need a new place in 2013...I need more room. maybe I'll rent a house. We shall see. I need tattoos....I do...i really need one more for 2013. (I am such an addict) ... That my heart is going to explode with every best! 2012 really gave me hope that happiness and willing it to you works. NOT FEELING ..... Like I accomplished much in my "to do" list. Still so much to do. ... That 2012 broke my spirit. If any...

FEELING It is fall time to break out the boots, sweaters I got some cashmere leggings...#WINNING Fall...perfect time to fall in love. I'm in love. Yep...I will only say that once on this blog. And he's amazing. Sometimes love is right under your nose And sometimes the things you put out into the universe, like Bliss, actually happen Time to break out the socks Halloween is coming. Still haven't decided on a costume. Luckily...those costumes can be recycled for uhm.."other" purposes! *cough* my Pinterest addiction is getting out of hand. My "Wedding" board especially. Starbucks double fudge brownie Just 1 more semester of coursework chill weekends..under covers and watching Netflix daydreaming about vacations.I need a cruise. A fruity drink or something... my bootleg Clarisonic face cleaner. It's not Clarisonic but it works just as well Amazon Prime. a man who can cook :) Thank you Jesus!  Miguel's Kaleidoscope Dream Ta...

 FEELING This song by Cody Chestnutt. It just makes me swoon. I promise I will do a "Thursday Tune" on this alone. It deserves it. smokey jazz clubs 2 CHAINZZZZZZ! I am not into Gospel but that Tamala Mann "Take me to The King" has really ministered to me this week. Emeli Sande' Snow on the Bluff (check it out on Netflix...it's the #1 movie there...) contemplating celibacy again. I think I need to go back... bonding w/ new friends when he lets you sit in his lap, wraps his arms around you after a bad day, lets you lay your head on his chest, letting you cry, and just kisses your forehead and goes..."Shh....it's alright" getting into a new artist....and just digging them so hard oyu have to find every song, every mixtape. It's like a treasure hunt finding your G-spot I remember finding my G-spot like it was yesterday. I was 12......(yo...that's for another post). However...It wasn't until I turned like 33 that I h...

FEELING Beautiful in simple, summery outfits. My hair has naturally changed colors. All the funky styles I've been doing with my Locs All things Idris Elba. Finding me a hot white boy like Channing Tatum to dance to Ginuwine's "Pony". White super high thread count sheets Tweet still goes hard Frank Ocean is everything The book I just read . The Surrendered Singl e. It truly changed how I view relationships. That being said, I'm much more relaxed and in the flow of life. flowers just because..... Low country boils. Yummmmy! my ideal date: take me to the park, eat ice cream and talk.....so simple. I'm bulking up weight wise. Loehmann's. I LOVE that store. Surprising one of my closest friends :) I sent her a bomb foodie package if I do say so myself: spicesm cooking stuff. So fun. She tells me all the stuff she makes! LOL I like thoughtful gifts... :) Men who aren't afraid I show emotions. Glad I have an idea of what my dissertat...

FEELING: like a hopeless romantic like buying a jumpsuit (random) like watching some porn. cause my friend @ThePrissyMommy reminded me I haven't done a "Weekly Porn Review" in ages. But since I've made a personal vow to not watch any, I havent had any to review. Maybe that'll change. like I need a hobby that Frank Ocean is the bravest dude I know. and I LOVE him.  D"angelo's Return The BET awards wasn't so rachet this year which is good ..Frankie Beverly and Maze got honored on the show which is nice. deep down I know good, attractive men exist. I dont subscribe to male bashing for that reason. Sure..I get frustrated but bashing ain't my style. I gotta get another tattoo perhaps I need to "sell myself" and advertise all the qualities I have. Like a want ad.....for dating. (I am reading this book called The Surrendered Single and they suggest you "advertise" that you are single to friends, family, social networ...

Feeling unappreciated. Although a negative..I am feeling that. adventerous. Got a lot I need to accomplish this summer when he says "hey gorgeous face...." It melts me so while he may say that to a lot of women....(LOL)..I feel it's special. the cool side of the pillow dapper dressed dudes someone reading poetry to me silence. drinking cold  El Jimador while listening to old Phoebe Snow records.... heavy breathing more silence Instagram Tweetgram Twitter booty. I just appreciate a nice ass...male or female a foot tattoo legalization of soft drugs nipple and clitoris piercings.... The Blog Bitches Gotta Eat and her corresponding FB page . LOVE HER. Erotic Art old fashioned puzzles with 1500 pieces, and doing them while I sip roobios tea pics of gorgeous black babies. sexual weird. I'm just a weird person Not Feeling appreciated (See above) secure like there is a reason to smile...Oh I smile..but I mean SMILE till it hurts and I ...

FEELING I met Jill Scott!! I was with my friend Rita and we were at Cheesecake factory! She was so nice! I shook her hand!  She even did a little bow!She had her cute son and looked amazing!!! *sigh* I had a serious girl crush! Jill is a goddess that can do no wrong..an Aries Goddess. *le swoon* Our waiter was so gay and excited (LOL)..he tipped us off that Jill was in the corner booth! That made my whole week! Seriously! The semester is ending I think Imma bring the full bush, 1970s pubes back. I mean..why torture myself with the waxing. I doubt anyone is gonna see it for a while. *shrug* ASOS.com Zara.com (LOVE IT) Canibus brownies (I've never had any...I just like the idea) legalized prostitution and labor unions for sex work. I love my women's studies classes more than my English classes. Just 1.5 more years to go.....let's hope at least....we shall see... Scandal. I like that show.... Surprise visits... laughing until I cry Big KRIT Monica's ...

FEELING Good Lovin' Flexing your intellectual muscle and a vocabulary is sexy Calm, not too over the top proposals accents sleeping naked after sex Working out Charles Barkley as a commentator. He is HIL-A-RI-OUS!! OMG! *wipes tears* old fashioned epistolary relationships....cards, letters, poems, calls.... Beards (but we established this already) Dimples...oh yeah.... Calvin Klein Euphoria perfume Adele's CD never gets old... Lady Gaga's " Marry the Night " is a GREAT song to get me thru that last mile Listening to Boney James "Ride"  album,  in the complete dark, with a glass of wine I have SUCH weird musical tastes....well..."ecclectic" the ENTIRE new Anthony Hamilton CD..."Back to Love". ESP this song I want someone to feel that way for me....soon and very soon how my name sounds in certain accents... regular magazines counting down the days until I sink my toes into the sand my creative writing has improv...

FEELING NYE signals that  the BS from the past year is over I've had a trying year...a GOOD but trying year...but I am ready to BOUNCE to 2012 Iv'e already kicked my fitness goals into high gear. I gotta keep these resolutions Seriously... Hearing "What are you doing NYE?" followed by "Baby It's Cold Outside" LOVE those songs The Ball drop in Times Square....(or our little Peach Drop in ATL) I'm still celibate. I've stayed strong Maybe I'll get some in 2012 (LOL) Watchnight Service The movie New Year's Eve. I wanna see that.... Kissing at the stroke of midnight 2012 signals almost being done w/ this Phd...Praise Jehovah NYE fireworks I feel that 2012 is about to be a BREAKTHROUGH year! I'm excited (for me and a friend I've been praying deeply for) NOT FEELING Paying crazy amounts of money for NYE parties. Normally..the joint would be $10 to 15 on a regular night. Now you wanna charge me $150 to sit in a ...

(Christmas in Atlantic Station: Atlanta, Georgia) Feeling the smell of warm gingerbread, peppermint cocoa, and Christmas pine all the good food people cook cookie exchanges and tree-trimming parties being around friends Christmas Music....THIS IS the greatest rendition of Silent Night ever. Dont argue me down..I'll refuse to accept it: Dont you just LOVE Boyz II Men's Christmas album But it's not officially Christmas until you hear this: Best Gospel Christmas Album: Kirk Franklin....hands down ! Mariah has a good Christmas Album too...I love her version of Oh Holy Night (and Im not a Mariah fan by no means..but I do own this album!) I Like Celine Dion's album too . Her version of Ava Maria...pure genius! But when I was kid...It was all about George Michael and WHAM ! (LOL..that song is the cutest to me!)  Dern..I just like Christmas music....so many good albums out there.Jackson 5, Stevie Wonder, Motown in general....SO MANY! :) When I hear Whitney Houst...

Feeling The weather is changing..so I'm feeling warm, inviting, sexy, alluring..maybe even a little "daring" Like we skipped fall and are going straight into winter. Wow.........*burrr* Cold sheets. I like my sheets ice cold, then gradually warming up. Down comforters Maxwell albums never, EVER get old for me Argyle tights. Patterened tights in general Iphone 4s Winter skin exfoliating That my feet are covered and I can save on the pedicures. This is prob my fav Monica song of all time ............. I like Drake. Sue me! *shrug* I'm gorgeous. I mean absolutely stunning. And it's not my problem if other people don't see it. *shrug* Not Feeling That despite this weather changing, there really is no one to share that with...except my boyfriend TiVo (LOL) That this is me most weekends... (that's cocoa in my mug...LOL) That there is no point to my cell phone. I dont even get that many texts. People don't call.  Yet I want an Iphone 4s? ...

Feeling: HALLOWEEN! It is prob my fav non-holiday holiday....next to Thanksgiving crazy costumes families who participate. Like my girl Yakini over at PrissyMommy.com . I'm sure she has something  in store! She's always so bomb with her creativity. I'm dressing up for the first time in like 3 years AND going to a party. You'll have to wait and see what I'll be! I always think about how I wanted to be Wonder Woman and ran out in the cold on Halloween  in my Underoos, red cowboy boots,  and my mama got so mad Candy goes on sale the day after, KIT KATS FOR EVERYONE! It's.....The Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown!! I'll have peace and quiet and no kids knocking cause kids in condos/apartments do not trick-or -treat. They go to the mall..which seems so lame to me. Parties! With a spiked punch!!!. (I throw the best parties..although I'm not having one..just going to one) Can I say Kit Kats again??? I'll be around friends this year. It should be a ...

Feeling I love this. I got this from my boy's FB page. That my ankle is somewhat improving...Praise God This song by Zhane............still resonates with me. OH! And this one Black bras. I have about 10 of em. Seriously... The Occupy movement. I feel them........(despite some of them being privileged white people.) This new Robin Thicke....can't wait till we get a new album from him. Bubble baths with chilled glasses of Chardonnay. That may just be my fav wine actually... Hot cocoa...curled up w/ my afghan and Netflix That I dropped this wretched class. I think I have a crush again. It's lame. It's cute. I don't care. My little Nicki Minaj nameplate necklace that I got. I got my real name..it's cheesy. It's fun. *shrug* Kindle Fire..YES PREODERD Iphone 4s...ON IT How beautiful and awesome that my friends think I am I've been divorced almost 3 full years... I am glad to be here still. Spring break in Playa del Carmen...............yessss...

FEELING Reinvigorated. I have goals, esp on the fitness tip I am working on. My winter boot buys. You'll see them soon enough over on StilettoBelle.com My friend Yaki sending me a template for the blog and feeling awesome that I installed it myself! I'm a G! (LOL) Hot cocoa under a warm afghan Fresh flowers weekly. While I'd liek to NOT be the one buying them for myself, I always have to have fresh ones weekly. And Kroger always has them half off by Wednesday :) The new Fall shows: 2 Broke Girls, Up All Night, The Playboy Club (w/ Naturi Naughton), Prime Suspect,  and new seasons of my favs like Glee, Psych, Dexter, Luther (w/ Idris Elba), Boardwalk Empire, SIng Off...LOVE FALL TV!!! Speaking of bunnies..I def need one of those costumes in my life. an Official one. I used to have a bootleg one back in the day. LOL My girl got me hooked on Pinterest . That and Polyvore are my inspirations Apartment design blogs. Makes me wanna step my game up This pic of Lenny Kra...

Feeling I admit..I kinda like some of the stuff from the Kardashian at Sears stuff. AND, my homegirl ThePrissyMommy over at http://www.stylemeprissy.com/ pulled off some cute looks. So..I broke down and ordered some. I've decided to get into fitness competitively . So Imma be ripped (LOL) Im on a debt diet. Feels good to get a handle on stuff. My solo trip to Playa del Carmen I'm planning. This place looks so amazing! The SATSB Bookclub Skype I had. It was amazing...thanks girls! purple blush. ..like I need a new look. so..new hair color it shall be!! Back to being a red head! good about paying Tithes! YES LAWD! a lot less "lonely" I NEED that Iphone 5 real bad. This Blackberry is kaput! Classic Smokey Robinson..this is my FAV SONG of his of all time. I also NEED new albums from: Ryan Leslie, Frank Ocean, Maxwell, and Brandy. ..that maybe this journey in abstinance is getting easier. Not Feeling The fact that those Kardashians are some opportunist ...

FEELING Football season..FINALLY Starting my shoe blog: http://stilettosandthesouthernbelle.blogspot.com  And new shoes to fill that blog up with :) School starting...which means REFUNDS!! A semester without dates...I need clarity Cleaning out my makeup case..and refreshing my look New lingerie Anticipating that first kiss mutual attraction. *crossing fingers* Affion Crockett's "IN THE FLOW" (so funny!!!) That we havent had any rain a plate of calamari. Yummmmm! The Movie... The Help  Just as good as the book (minus some edits) Webseries: Awkward Black Girl and 12 Steps to Recovery (FAV SHOWS right now!) RetailMeNot, Hautelook, Rue La La, And Beyond The Rack. Been getting GREAT deals and using coupons! YES! Not Feeling School starting...which means no time for myself anymore I havent had sex in******* amount of months (LOL). Dear God...help me! *sigh* Forgetting to do this post every week (LOL) Crushes that just dont go anywhere F...