Sex and The Southern Belle

*blows all the dust off of this thing* Happy Valentine's Day 2017! You know, I truly suck as a blogger. I told myself in 2017 I would at least write one post a MONTH... and well.. here we are in February and I am just now opening this thing. But.. I guess it's never too late to start.  Sometimes I wonder why I even pay for hosting *smh*... I look at my friends like Hilary who consistently blog.. and I am like.. boy.. I am the suckiest blogger ever. So what have I been up to? Let's see... mothering is #1. My daughter celebrated her first birthday a couple of weeks ago. She went from a 1 lb preemie.... to an 18 lb laughing, giggle-bot who likes milk more than I could ever imagine. I am truly blessed. (From the NICU to Now... Please  visit:  www.marchforbabies.org/ TeamTeags  ) Secondly, I've been trying to get my health on track. After having the baby, blood pressure has been high and I want to ultimately get off of these pills. I bought a gym membershi...

Contest Rules: 1) Like my  Facebook Page   and share the give away post on your wall! 2) On the FB Fan Page under the blog, tell us " How do you spark a little passion within your relationship? The best and most creative answer will win! Extra Entries: 1)Subscribe to my  YouTube Channel  and comment on one of my past blogs 2) Follow my  Pinterest  page 3) Subscribe to my style blog:  Stiletto and the Southern Belle TheAdultToyShop.com CONTEST ENDS AT 5pm on Friday, February 1. Good Luck! ETA: WE HAVE A WINNER! CONGRATS TO SARAH GREY who is our FB friend and follower! WHOOP! Enjoy dear!

With Valentine's Day fast approaching, I'd like to share a few thoughts on the matter of the actual "Day"....and what it implies..for me..and maybe even for you What do the Divorced do at V-Day?? This is my 2 nd Valentine's Day as a divorcee'. You know, I never did get into the whole "day" although I love what it represents. I never had a "valentine". Even when I was married and with my ex for seven years, we never exchanged gifts. The most we ever got each other was a card. I think we MAY have gone out to eat once or twice (I truly don't remember)...and the only flowers he ever got me were AFTER we were divorced. * smh * The first V- dayI had sans husband, I actually had a date the night before. I had made it VERY clear that I felt first dates on V-day were bogus. I mean, let's face it ya'll ! People present their best, most romantic disingenuous selves on the day due to the ramifications (i .e. Maybe she'll like me..may...