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No One F***CKS Personalities.

(For the record..I don't know this dude... but for the purpose of this blog..he is about the most unsexy, unflattering dude I could  muster up. *sigh*) One of my friends decided that she, too, wanted to hook me up with someone. Not only did she fail to get to know my standards...she failed at the hook-up rule ( see yesterday's pos t). She sent me a pic of the dude..and he looked like Snuffalupagus. Don;t you remember Snuffalupagus? (Yes..he was cute and adorable..but only for a few minutes then he was hairy and creepy!) I told her flat out. "You must hate me. Either you hate me or you find me hideous and feel that I shouldn't date better looking men". She shut her trap and tried to laugh it off. I wasn't laughing. I posted the following status on FB... I f you try and set me up w/ a dude and he's ugly... what you are REALLY saying is "of course I don't think you're pretty enough for someone better" and you neither love me nor listen...

The #1 Hook-Up Rule: A Short Blog

There is a rule to hooking up your friends. It's really simple.....trust me. " Never hook-up your friend w/ someone who doesn't even meet your basic standards. If YOU wouldn't date him and he's not good enough for you...then why's he ok for your friend?" This isn't to say that the person has to be YOUR TYPE because of course..everyone's type is different. This isn't about type..this is about really basic stuff. It's really about knowing your friend. You know she won't date a man with kids...this dude has 5... If the man has questionable ethics or no spiritual grounding.. If he has a funky, cocky attitude and your girl is laid back... You don't even find dude remotely attractive.....but he "seems nice" (and that just aint good enough)..then let it go. If you know your girl is a stickler for good teeth..and you say "he has an overbite and a gap...BUT". Don't qualify that with a BUT! If you know your gir...