Dear Blog Readers... I have a confession to make. This will come to a surprise to most of you but....... I have performance anxiety. *and the crowd gasps* Yes..the girl who writes about sex, love and all things relationship has performance anxiety. And truly, it's deeper than sex. I get nervous for everything. Tests..interviews..first dates, hosting events, even meeting new friends. I'm a wobbly mess. But since this blog is about sex.......yes...I do get performance anxiety... in that area as well. There are some disclaimers to this, now: a) I only get it when there has been LONG GAPS between uhm...."being grown" b) I only get it when I don't feel I'm at my tip top shape (physically...that is) But most of all.... c) I only get it when I know, truly know, that I like the person . I mean like a WHOLE lot. An unreal amount. Like..we prob on the verge of "exclusive" status. Somehow I always know it...and I physically cut the monkey (no ...