Sex and The Southern Belle

It is a super rainy day in ATL. The rain is signaling that fall is fast approaching  here and summer is getting its last hurrahs.  There is a slight chill in the air and the rain is beating against the window. It's officially fall. You look at your cell phone. Is that a text? It's officially "cuddle season". Oh yes...now is the time of the season where people have to  choose to find a "cuddle buddy" aka "a winter boo" aka "cuffing season partner". And it all begins with "cuddling". You know how it goes. You get a call on a night like this from a dude...say you've had an interest in him for a while now. It could be a dude you used to mess with a while ago. The weather is changing. You might have gained a few pounds and you're a nice "warm body of thickness".  He says.."Hey...I just wanna come over...bring a movie...and "cuddle". *side eye*...cuddle huh? I am not about that lif...

So I was on Facebook and I see a newsfeed by my boy/Jeopardy homie, JW, asking if people (if presented with the idea) would be down for a cuddle party. A cuddle party? WTF is a cuddle party? (Notice not a BROWN face up in that mug...) So...he posts this link to: www.cuddleparty.com which had the following description: A Cuddle Party is: A structured, safe workshop on boundaries, communication, intimacy and affection. A drug and alcohol-free way to meet fascinating people in a relaxing environment. A laboratory where you can experiment with what makes you feel safe and feel good. This playful, fun workshop has been a place for people to rediscover non-sexual touch and affection, a space to reframe assumptions about men and women, and a great networking event to meet new friends, roommates, business partners and significant others. Can Cuddle Party restore your faith in humanity? It just might. But at the very least, you’ll have a great time, and leave feeling re...