Sex and The Southern Belle

Ladies: If a man was sweet, kind everything you wanted..we talking marriage material......but his winky-dinky was teeny-tiny...would you stay? Even after the "techniques" aint working? Vicky I can't say that I could. Because I'd always think of it just that way... and it would lead me to stray. Sexual compatibility is really key in my relationships. And can you imagine how much worse you'd feel if you found out that winky dink man cheated? This is where those news stories with women running their men over with hummers begins. Because she compromised something important... I'm going on a tangent. The answer is NO. Mocha LMAO @ your tangemt. It was much appreciate. Yarny  That was a good tangent, Vicky. Lol Well, if "techniques" aren't working and I'm like a rolling stone (can't get NO satisfaction), then the only marriage I could have with that man is an open marriage. If he wasn't open to that option, then I couldn...

...is all about the POLE! Question: Ladies..do you have a problem if your man wanted to buy a stripper pole for the house? OR wanted you to go to the strip club (watching this episode of The Marriage Ref...this argument is DUMB (wife is against it) . Not understanding why*smh*) Cee (man) why is she against it? I missed that episode... 7 hours ago · Mocha http://www.nbc.com/the-marriage-ref/video/clips/the-panel-on-the-stripper-pole/1205229/ 7 hours ago · AJ (man) .......well since I am Sade and all..No I don't have a problem with it.. 7 hours ago · Britt My only issue with the pole is children and company. Other than that no problem. I go to the strip club, but not with my mate. I guess I would go if he asked, but I probably won't be the one suggesting it. *shrugs* I'm not against it though. 7 hours ago · Nell the pole can be in our bedroom and i will be more than willing to take lessons :) 7 hours ago · Mocha @Cee..she NEVER had a valid reason...other than she didn't t...

....the subject is "Role Reversal and Marriage" This week's "Ask a Woman" question...is.... "Would you, as a woman, ever propose to a man?" Hmmmm...ladies? Would you? D.A No. Tue at 10:39am · Dani No Tue at 10:42am · Candi Nope Tue at 10:42am · KP Nope and nope and nope I'm old fashion. I believe in the chase... Tue at 10:48am · Mocha Wow 4 No's...no modern women here? No women who shun "gender role" (I'm just stirring it up....LOL) Tue at 10:49am · Angel. No. Hell no. Lol. I'm a mix of traditional and modern. But this is one tradition I dig. Tue at 10:52am · Mocha Right now...i would say NO..cant do it. It's HE who findeth a wife. If i gotta give u a nudge..then you dont want me. BUT....if I was drunk enough and we were in Vegas. In other words..I can never say never. Tue at 10:55am · Meka Nope! Tue at 10:57am · Ru "HEYAL NO"...would you have to give HIM a ring? Or would he still get you one later? Tue at 11:43...

I've been asked to do a "Ask a Woman" counterpart to my "Ask a Man" questions. Our first question comes from AJ . He wants to know "Women seem to go for style over substance every time. Explain to me why you always go for the "bad” guy (style) as opposed to the” good” guy (substance)? And when they say they w...ant a good guy and find him..they still end up going for a bad guy?" Ladies..thoughts? Candi I don't think it's true that women go for the "bad" guy every time. I haven't been with a bad guy, so I can't fully speak for these women who do this. However, if I had to guess, maybe they're looking for adventure and the "good" guy doesn't offer them that, or maybe they have a complex which draws them to bad guys. Maybe they feel they don't deserve a good guy. I don't know...just my thoughts. 8 hours ago · Mocha Guess I'll answer. Women like bad guys for the sense of "adventure" th...