Sex and The Southern Belle

** Sex and the Southern Belle is proud to partner with Frances Denzel of TheAdultToyShop.com for a timely guest blog....Valentine's Day is around the corner and well.........everyone isn't getting that loving feeling. We learn that sometimes that can be a good thing... ** Embracing a Sexual Dry Spell Even the most passionate couple may experience a period in time when sexual desires are low. Intimacy is easily pushed aside, sometimes stress is a main cause or perhaps you simply “ don't feel like it ”. Some may feel concerned  that sexual disinterest will spill into other aspects of the relationship and lead to general disinterest with their partner. Don't place a grim outlook on your future however, a sexual dry spell is an opportunity to embrace other aspects of the relationship and build your foundation stronger in other ways such an emotional closeness and a deeper friendship. You can also harness this time to bring a fantastic triumphant return...

Continuing our review of products for men,  I was posed with the question. "What if you are a "larger" man and want a stimulating toy"?? Well..that is easy to find. and the people over at RoboticBlowJob.com def can meet the needs of our well endowed brothers. Yes people...that is the name of the site. RoboticBlowJob.com handles the needs to men from lubricants to stimulators of all sorts.  They do specialize in a variety of toys but the toy that appeals to most "larger" men would be the  AutoBlow Max This toy is made for men over 6 inches and up to 9 (or even 10) inches. It works like any electric blow job/pocket pussy/fleshlight type of toy, but the silicon is molded and takes into account the larger size of some men by using gentle sucking pressure. It isn't a penis pump..but definitely something can allow a man to reach orgasm up to 5 minutes from the start of use. With a non soluble water based lubricant, this toy will give you ample ...

Men...now is the time to find toys just for you. Our partners over at ManGasm.com deliver quality products for men. And yes...even straight men can use these. Their toys are lightweight, affordable and compact and discreet. My review is on the ManGasm.com "Prostate Stiumlators". In particular, the Mangasm Spark..... I know. It looks a little complicated and you are likeWTF but these prostate stimulators are smooth and flexible   They are curved to stimulate the perineum  (the outer surface of the prostate that is very sensitive and can crive men to orgasm).  It is made form a non-porous material and is safe to use with water-based lubricants. You receive maximum stimulation from the nodules that really vibrate along the motor. It has seven speeds of pleasure. I had a guy friend test it out..and well......the approved! *thumbs up* IF you are confused on how to use these toys..do not worry! ManGasm.com also f...

In our latest installment of Ask The MochaPeach , we answer questions about men and sex toys, brought to you by adult novelty shop Adam and Eve. Dear The Mocha Peach: My husband and I are very adventurous in the bedroom. We use all types of toys and aids, But we are looking for toys that he can use, both together and solo. You see, I travel a lot for work...and sometimes I know he gets  lonely....so I want him to use some toys with his porn. Not to mention, we want some toys we can use together when I return from those long trips. He's very open to the idea but we have no idea where to start.  Have any ideas? Signed,  Need Toys for my Man ***** Dear "Need Toys for my Man": Well my dear, I am glad you asked me questions about sex toys for your  husband. I am glad he is open and receptive to using toys (and kudos to him for wanting to use them when his sweetpea is away  on business...awww!). Although I do not review many ale sex toys, I ...

Kandi Burruss promotes her new Bedroom Kandi toy line at Shout Sept. 1, 2011. PHOTO CREDIT: Rodney Ho/rho@ajc.com Former Lead Singer of Xscape and Real Housewives of Atlanta cast member singer/songwriter Kandi Burruss recently launched her own line of sex toys. Kandi said she was inspired by Dr. Laura Berman (whose products I have also reviewed as well).... Kandi looking curvy and fab at her product launch party this past September. The line, entitled "Bedroom Kandi by Kandi Burruss", introduces women to luxury sex toys that are sleek, discrete, and gorgeous with cute little names and "adapters". Lots of products resemble women's items such as lipstick or compacts! Partnering with OhMiBod (famous for their Ipod/Vibrator combination) and designer Matthew Pung , Kandi has launched some pretty "hot" products "Happiness and Joy" vibrator "Kandi Kisses" lipstick vibrator I love that Kandi is branching out into other areas besi...

As part of the Ambassador Program with Eden Fantasys , I was asked to review the Dr. Laura Berman Juno Kegel exerciser. I could go on and on about it but.....a Video would probably be best (WARNING: There is NO NUDITY ! I am not DEMO-ing the product! LMAO!)  As the manufacturer suggests: By no means an ordinary dildo, the Juno™ doubles as a weighted pelvic exerciser, and many women find that exercising your pelvic, or kegel, muscle for a short period of time every day will greatly enhance your sex life by giving you more vaginal control. First you need to locate your pelvic muscle if you don’t already know where it is-it’s the one you use to start or stop the flow of urine. For best results, practice exercising just your pelvic muscle for five to ten minutes a day... It's so fun and easy to use. Trust me..you'll get a lot of use and enjoyment out of it. I give  the Product a 5 out of 5: affordable, easy to use, and comfortable. Please take a look at E...