Sex and The Southern Belle

If you all follow me on Twitte r, you know that I often tweet about my adventures on our  local public transportation . Sometimes, I'll even sneak a Twitpic here or there for some comedy. So much ignorance occurs on the train.. Recently, I've had a series of tweets about a guy with a serious Minister Farrakhan Comb-Over.... Yes..his hair is wavy...like Farrakhan..and parted on the side like Booker T. Washington....yet the man has a HOLE in the top of his natural. Sorta like the good minister himself.... ( God bless the Hon. Minister..but his hair has just GOT to go...let it go, Brother Minister!!)  As a matter of fact...I talked about dude on one of my earlier blogs about " accountability " and really fucked up hairlines. Someone is cutting this man's hair..taking his money..and LYING to him. The edge up and neck line stays fresh! Anyway... The man is VERY attractive.  Caramel colored. Great smile. He may be in his late 30s/early 40s. Dresses sharp...no w...

I had a weird experience last week at work. I was at a conference that had a variety of vendors. Next to me was a very attractive representative of the local banks. He was attractive…in the rugged, Ben Affleck kind of way. He chatted me up instantly and we talked the whole time. He even snuck me some Kit-Kats from another booth and said “If you get a sweet tooth” and winked. YES...the dude “winked”. I was totally flattered. I thought for sure this guy, at the end of the day, would ask me for my number. As I was amping myself up, adjusted my lipstick, fluffed up my hair (and boobs)…the guy walks over to me…shakes my hand and says... “It was nice chatting with ya” ….and walks away. I sat there flabbergasted with my mouth wide open. Seriously?? You talked to me the whole time. You FLIRTED with me doggone it! I flirted back with you…and what did you do?? You walked off. I wasn’t the typical “mean black woman with a chip on her shoulder”. Actually, I never am. I smiled. I laughed at his cor...

You feel it This attraction deep inside for someone It's magic Chemistry Like the earth stood still when your eyes met When the sound of his voice made your hairs stand on edge It's sex on fire It's smoldering sensuality Just one little problem........ You Can't Have him .....or Can you?? It's quite ironic really. Right after the post I made the other day abotu "crushes"...my little heart began to flutter and my mind started to imagine scenarios with a guy I've known a long time. You see...I dont know what it is just yet. Convos are small. Here and there. There's just something about him. I can't put my finger on it...and my finger isn't really what I want on IT anyway :) It's like a mystery... One problem. We have this friend in common...a close friend with close ties (almost like a relative)...and I REALLY think it would be VERY awkward to get something started with this person (esp since he knows me..our common friend...and I'm...