In a new weekly series, various women readers will be posing different questions to men in order to spark dialogue and get some male perspective> This week's question comes come a reader, Candi. "Has the phone call died??? Do men actually call women or should I expect a text as the norm?" Here is some feedback from some men (and women): CC (man) Before I answer... are you referring to that initial call after the first meeting & exchanging phone numbers... or are you referring to a call vs. a text message after a relationship is established? Mocha @CC..I think in general. When a person asks for your number..instead of a first "call"...you get a series of text. Rarely if ever...do brothers take the time and call a sista on the phone. Thu at 10:25am · SB Sooooo true Tati! I mean why even ask for your number? C C Ah... I see what you're getting at. Well, did you ever think about how much pressure is put on us regarding that first call? How long to wait, w...