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Feeling/Not Feeling: The Audiophile Files

FEELING

Maxwell is my fav singer of all time. Period. Point blank.What is it about Al Green that makes me wanna make me have a baby? Well..at least make a baby? I mean he just does something to me........John Legend is def in my top 5 singers of all timeAnthony Hamilton is up in there too...And D'Angelo! I am so excited about his new albumTweet needs to drop a new one...I"m glad I got to see Sade in concert..who knows when she'll tour again...Sometimes..I bump a whole day full of "trap music".........and enjoys it. It makes me wish I had a big ass and worked at Magic City......but oh well.Speaking of which..T.I needs to drop that album,I'm also looking forward to the 2 CHainz. Secretly..he's my "hood baby daddy" although truth be told..dude isn't hood at all. He has a college degree, went on a B-ball scholarship and graduated with a 4.0. WTF... I do find musicians who went to college VERY sexy (I.e. Ryan Leslie....he needs to drop an album t…

Tumblr and the Kid........:)

(Hello Darren Sharper.........yummmy!)
If you didn't know.......in addition to two Blogger blogs.... I have a Tumblr too.

If you also didn't know.............I have a dimple fetish. (along with a beard fetish but.......whatever. I can have more than one).

SO follow me on Tumblr....my spot dedicated to black men with Dimples :)


http://blackwithdimples.tumblr.com 

Enjoy :)

Ask the Mocha Peach: Toys II (well 4) Men.... A Review

In our latest installment of Ask The MochaPeach, we answer questions about men and sex toys, brought to you by adult novelty shop Adam and Eve.





Dear The Mocha Peach:


My husband and I are very adventurous in the bedroom. We use all types of toys and aids, But we are looking for toys that he can use, both together and solo. You see, I travel a lot for work...and sometimes I know he gets  lonely....so I want him to use some toys with his porn. Not to mention, we want some toys we can use together when I return from those long trips. He's very open to the idea but we have no idea where to start.  Have any ideas?


Signed, 


Need Toys for my Man




*****


Dear "Need Toys for my Man":


Well my dear, I am glad you asked me questions about sex toys for your  husband. I am glad he is open and receptive to using toys (and kudos to him for wanting to use them when his sweetpea is away  on business...awww!).

Although I do not review many ale sex toys, I assure you I have used some in my adventure…

Wordless Wednesday..... Sorta

Feeling/ Not Feeling: Midsummer Nights

FEELING


Beautiful in simple, summery outfits.My hair has naturally changed colors.All the funky styles I've been doing with my LocsAll things Idris Elba.Finding me a hot white boy like Channing Tatum to dance to Ginuwine's "Pony".White super high thread count sheetsTweet still goes hardFrank Ocean is everythingThe book I just read . The Surrendered Single. It truly changed how I view relationships.That being said, I'm much more relaxed and in the flow of life.flowers just because.....Low country boils. Yummmmy!my ideal date: take me to the park, eat ice cream and talk.....so simple.I'm bulking up weight wise.Loehmann's. I LOVE that store.Surprising one of my closest friends :) I sent her a bomb foodie package if I do say so myself: spicesm cooking stuff. So fun. She tells me all the stuff she makes! LOLI like thoughtful gifts... :)Men who aren't afraid I show emotions.Glad I have an idea of what my dissertation will focus on.Planned and thoughtful dat…

Thursday Tunes: Tweet "Always Will"

One of the most underrated r&b singers of our generation, Charlene "Tweet" Keys, from Rochester, NY,  is a powerhouse vocalist and talented songwriter. She burst onto the scene with her debut album "Southern Hummingbird  (2002) and to this day, it's one of few albums I can play all the way through w/ o skipping a track.

It was lead by the sexually charged missy Elliott produced ode to masturbation "Ooops, oh my". While that was definitely a banger, the ballads on the album were the selling point for me.

"Always Will" is my absolute favorite from the album. About an undying love and a self-assured woman who KNOWS that this man will love her forever, Tweet sings it so effortlessly. (I believe she also played guitar on this track too..audiophiles can correct me if I am wrong)


My Favorite Lyrics:
We're inseparable
Cause your soul's with mine
And you've, you've been loving me so long
And I bet you always will

We could be on separate…

Wordless Wednesday: #TRUTH

(Another shirt from CocoaBabies.com )

U/s: A poem

Do you remember?
How we used to stay up all night texting and calling about nothing
Running lines of poetry together like it was our natural speaking voices
Something out of Bronte or Sanchez
It was us....

Remember how you had pet names for my pussy... Sight unseen
You knew she was sweet before you even had a taste
and when you did
You said she gave you a toothache
You said the aching hasn't stopped
Just moved to a dull fire in your belly
I remember that
Us.

Yo.. How you gonna tell me about all the things you wanted to show me
Special brews and spells you wanted to cast. Old vinyl you wanted to play
As you bent me over mud cloth pillows
Teasing and stroking
Slow dancing to the music in our heads
How you gonna promise me that?
But it was so you
It was us...

Modern machinery archives old messages between us
Cute flirtations that melted into heat
Made me giggle like my inner 12 year old
FaceTime led to face time where we couldn't face time...
I swear.. If you woulda told me t…

Thursday Tunes: Frank Ocean performs "Bad Religion" on Jimmy Fallon

Frank Ocean is dope.
Period.
What a brave soul...as an instrumental person in the fusion of R&B and Hip-Hop with a dash of pop, lending his pipes and writing to Jay Z, Kanye and a host of other people. He was featured on a few songs on "Watch the Throne"....but his internet release mixtape "Nostaliga, Ultra" is what really made me fall in love with him.. A Native of New Orleans, his voice just paralyzes me.... Singer, Songwriter and part of the hip-hop alternative collective of "Odd Future" ...he is a force to be reckoned with.

He reminds me of a new-age Stevie Wonder or something.....his voice..his passion. I last featured him on the blog with the song "Thinkin Bout You"...but now he has his first major label release, just a week after he "came out" (or rather, explained.....) that he had been previously in a homosexual relationship. Who cares, right?  Apprently some in the hip-hop community and some narrow mnded people do..but …

Wordless Wednesday

(Shirt Courtesy of Cocoa Babies)

Frieda and Diego: A Poem in Progress

We paint poetry
with pussy and penis
wet acrylics of lust
on a canvas of this bed

Release me.....
spread me eagle across this place
until i break and shatter into fragments
Release me...

We paint poetry
with tongues and fingers
dipped into the pool of drowning
of confusion
that blurs into rainbows and nirvana

We paint poetry
with lies and forgiveness
with uncompromising lust and madness
You won't let me go
And I wont let you own me
But I never move an inch.

We paint poetry
with bubbles and bath water
you drink me in..inhale me in one fail gulp
panties in your teeth.
catch my pubic hair
 and tug and I scream

Release me..
until my torment becomes your anguish
until my orgasms turn into gasoline-laced screams
you set me on fire...
but release me

We paint poetry
Fragmented
Like Frieda and Diego
Beautifully tragic together
and senseless apart
volatile beauty broken by moments of time
You were mine..and I yours

We paint poetry
like abstract realism and impressionist cubism
some made up …

Feeling/Not Feeling: Random Friday

FEELING:

like a hopeless romanticlike buying a jumpsuit (random)like watching some porn. cause my friend @ThePrissyMommy reminded me I haven't done a "Weekly Porn Review" in ages. But since I've made a personal vow to not watch any, I havent had any to review. Maybe that'll change.like I need a hobbythat Frank Ocean is the bravest dude I know. and I LOVE him. D"angelo's ReturnThe BET awards wasn't so rachet this year which is good..Frankie Beverly and Maze got honored on the show which is nice.deep down I know good, attractive men exist. I dont subscribe to male bashing for that reason. Sure..I get frustrated but bashing ain't my style.I gotta get another tattooperhaps I need to "sell myself" and advertise all the qualities I have. Like a want ad.....for dating. (I am reading this book called The Surrendered Single and they suggest you "advertise" that you are single to friends, family, social networks, etc.. I am so shy...I do…

Thursday Tunes: Angela Bofill.... I Try

I just so happened to catch the latest episode of Unsung and it featured the Afro-Cuban beauty which was/is Angela Bofill. Born in the Bronx to a Cuban father and Afro-Puerto Rican mother, she  was one of the first Latina singers to find success in the R&B world in the 1970s.  My mother used to play this song all the time. No doubt, I think she gravitated toward the sad and tragic singers for reasons deeper than I could ever know... and she passed the musical gene on to me I guess :)

Sadly, Angela Bofill has experienced two strokes and no longer can sing like she used to. But that deep, melodic contralto voice is quite haunting.  She had many hits like "This time I'll be Sweeter" and "I'm on your Side"..but "I Try" is most definitely my favorite. She said she wrote it when she was 17 and experienced her first heartbreak..but this song is timeless. Every girl (and guy) can relate to it.

My fav lyrics...hell...it's the entire song:


I try to …

Wordless Wednesday: 4th of July Fireworks

Ustulation: A Poem

I've tried to let this die
To let the ambers turn to gray ash
But it wont let me
Oxygen that you breath into me
Let's it live on.
Why do this to me so?

I touch myself  trying to touch the depths of my soul
But I can only get so far
My body bursts opens with tears
because it's my only response
Why do you do this to me?

My life is incomplete without you
Though they tell me I shouldn't say these things
"Weak" is what they pen me
Strong black women shouldn't say such things...
But nothing about this weakens me
Why....why do you do this to me?

It is 106 outside..
The AC humming and the low, melodic whirl of a ceiling fan
Yet I am on fire
lying here on these sheets...
Why do you do this to me?

I cant eat or sleep
I want to consume you for both
I want to stay naked
Just in case so you can clothe me
Why oh why do you do this to me?

I want to feel chocolate flesh on flesh
Dark hands grip ample hips
Massaging mounds of firmness
Sweat upon sweat
causing an inferno

Living with #NoShame: My Story

When I was 20...I tried to commit suicide.

It was exactly 3 months before my 21st birthday. I should have been excited to turn 21. But...I wasn't. My life was an absolute wreck. I was taking a full load of classes. I was trying joining a sorority, which presented its own set of drama and mayhem, and on top of that, I had a boyfriend who was a master manipulator. I wouldn't say he was "abusive" in that sense of the word...but what I will say was nothing I did was ever good enough, I never spent enough time with him, and I never seemed to please him  I hated being where I was in life. I played the same CD's over and over. I read too much Sylvia Plath. My weight, a constant struggle, went up and down because of binge eating or not eating at all. My mother and I, despite our good relationship, were fighting much more often because I could not stand what I was seeing at home between her and my Father. And although she was right, I chose to ignore her advice. I felt I …