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The Perks of Being a 30 Something Divorcee'

subtitled : The Last Blog in which I will EVER talk about divorce I started this blog as a way to heal from my divorce. But guess what....everything has to come to an end. I am so over it. I am over talking about how to heal..what to do...how to date...etc. I've done the work. I've come out shining and like a champ.  Everyone feels like I am the go-to expert on how to bounce back after divorce. While I am flattered...again...it's got to stop. I've moved on. And so should my readers. Nevertheless....this is a blog post about divorce. *shrug* As I approach my Mid-30's (Ok let's face it...34 is prob already mid-30s), I realize that most of my "give a damn" gave out a long time ago. I've hit a stride. And while I do have fear and apprehension about a lot of major decisions in life, one thing is clear: Who gives a damn what other people think. When I got divorced almost 5 years ago, I had this shame and guilt.  I felt like a failure.  Looking...

I'm Just Too Old...

..to try to impress a dude w/ the sexy lingerie at the front door. If I answer in sweats and a tee...be happy that the tee is clean. ...to care what you think about my hair..or my complexion.... ...to not give head. If you are past the ages of 25...you need to learn how. ...to not know how to cook. Microwave chicks rarely ever get wifed. ..to be w/a dude who doesnt know how to eat the "love snack". Cmon son!! *throws up the sign* ...to stroke your ego. Just not gonna do it. ...to change myself. I define myself..for myself. YOU dont. ...to not live life to the fullest. So much to do..so little time ..to not floss as often as I should. *smh*. I wanna keep my teeth ...to get excited over celeb gossip. I just cant follow most of it anymore ...to have an Ipod full of rap music. Just not my thing. Give me some neo-soul any day of the week. ..to not be well-traveled. Gotta get out of the US especially more ...to deal with thugs. I need a man with a 401K and a dental plan ...to get w...