Feeling/Not Feeling: Random Friday

FEELING:

like a hopeless romantic
like buying a jumpsuit (random)
like watching some porn. cause my friend @ThePrissyMommy reminded me I haven't done a "Weekly Porn Review" in ages. But since I've made a personal vow to not watch any, I havent had any to review. Maybe that'll change.
like I need a hobby
that Frank Ocean is the bravest dude I know. and I LOVE him.
D"angelo's Return
The BET awards wasn't so rachet this year which is good
..Frankie Beverly and Maze got honored on the show which is nice.
deep down I know good, attractive men exist. I dont subscribe to male bashing for that reason. Sure..I get frustrated but bashing ain't my style.
I gotta get another tattoo
perhaps I need to "sell myself" and advertise all the qualities I have. Like a want ad.....for dating. (I am reading this book called The Surrendered Single and they suggest you "advertise" that you are single to friends, family, social networks, etc.. I am so shy...I don't know but hey.........I am single. I am available for dates and proper courting. LOL........*bats eyelashes*.)

NOT FEELING:

sharing how I am feeling with most of my friends. Deep inside, I just am exhausted. and quite honestly, I don't want to talk.
like a hopeless romantic. I feel like Charlotte: "I've been dating since I was 16...where is he???"
wearing my heart on my sleeve like the true Aries I am...doesn't really help
Maxwell's concert was cancelled. I am sad. My summer is over basically.....
I miss my girls.
If you are anti-relationship...how can you give relationship advice??? I mean..................*blinks* whatever. I don't believe a word you have to say, patna!
~~I miss being loved and being in love. Oh I am loved.....but......anyway.....maybe guys..nevermind...~~
adored. And I KNOW and we know my thoughts on that. I'm worth the adoration
like a I have a good, platonic guy friend to bounce things off of. I seriously do not have one guy friend who hasn't tried me......(.well...except my gay boyfriends :)
most of the music that is out
like I have control.
like I'm not a real black person cause I've never been to Essence Fest and I wanna go
like heading back in the school groove..but it has to happen....*sigh*
like working out everyday, all day is working. I am tired. It's easier to be fat (LOL)
like I'm just a bother. I recall talking to some friends about something and they cut the convo short. Fine...*smh* LOL.
I deserve more than what has been presented to me. Seriously....
that I want a vacation yet have nowhere to go...and I am not going solo again
..like i have no more tears left in my tear ducts. Seriously......
like I need a reason to smile. I havent had a gut busting laugh or smiled super hard in a really long time. I want my smile back :)

Give Away #3: Pure Romance Smooth Operator

As you all know..I am a definite supporter of fun and safe sexual activities and health.... And if you are also like me, you also know how to please yourself.....and spice things up with your partner. If you don't have a partner, a good ol' B.O.B. surely comes in handy. I've definitely sang the praises of my B.O.B from time to time ( see previous post )...and heck...I even did a video about it. See for yourself : Sex and the Southern Belle is proud to present Give Away #3..and have teamed up with Alica Beckford-Husband of Pure Romance by Alicia to give away something a lot of us single sisters surely do need....your own personal "B.O.B" called The Smooth Operator- a GLASS vibrator. I giggled with delight because I LOVE glass vibrators and trust me ladies, this one will provide hours of fun!!! Sophisticated. Sexy. Smooth! Each Smooth Operator is made by hand of sleek glass with a stripe that adds texture and a curved end that hits the spot. Use it on its ow...

Frat Boys, Toxic Masculinity and the #METOO Movement

(scene from Spike Lee's famous School Daze) A few weeks ago, my sorority held its national convention on New Orleans. Coincidently, another fraternity was also holding their national convention in New Orleans. Naturally, the jokes, mostly in jest, played upon the fact that these two groups, full of single, attractive and smart folks would be "on the prowl" and looking to "hook up" in the city known for its strong drinks, Southern heat, and hospitality. It was all jokes until nastiness decided to rear its ugly head. You had men in the other fraternity sexually harassing and being obscene to my sorority sisters who just wanted to have fun and handle the business of the sorority (and network.. and yes.. meet men in a somewhat safe space). There were stories of men groping women. Men saying disgusting things and then being like "Well fuck you then" if women rejected them. You would HOPE and think that college-educated men wouldn't act this w...

Kandi Burrus Launches Sex Toy Line

Kandi Burruss promotes her new Bedroom Kandi toy line at Shout Sept. 1, 2011. PHOTO CREDIT: Rodney Ho/rho@ajc.com Former Lead Singer of Xscape and Real Housewives of Atlanta cast member singer/songwriter Kandi Burruss recently launched her own line of sex toys. Kandi said she was inspired by Dr. Laura Berman (whose products I have also reviewed as well).... Kandi looking curvy and fab at her product launch party this past September. The line, entitled "Bedroom Kandi by Kandi Burruss", introduces women to luxury sex toys that are sleek, discrete, and gorgeous with cute little names and "adapters". Lots of products resemble women's items such as lipstick or compacts! Partnering with OhMiBod (famous for their Ipod/Vibrator combination) and designer Matthew Pung , Kandi has launched some pretty "hot" products "Happiness and Joy" vibrator "Kandi Kisses" lipstick vibrator I love that Kandi is branching out into other areas besi...

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I am so proud of Frank Ocean. I love him for that!

lol, well i hope i've inspired you to watch some porn and begin that series again. i used to enjoy that.

i really love a good jumpsuit. i think they're flattering, particularly on an hour glass figure.

Aww, i cant believe Maxwell's concert was cancelled. I hope they gave ya'all a rain check date?!

I'm a hopeless romantic too. Ugh! lol

Nah, i dont believe in genuinely platonic male/female friendships. I just dont trust those. lol

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