Feeling/Not Feeling

Feeling

Stronger every day
Luther on the BBC with Idris Elba (that is my SHOW)
New shoes...always
You can always count on your Mama to help you out :)
my lashes. LOVE THEM!
The Weeknd. LOVE IT (thangs Ing for putting me on!)
Like I am actually understading WTF is going on
Leopard print anything
Red anything (red is my fav color)
cold Patron Silver with LOTS of lime
Roller Skating to oldies
Men who actually wax their hairy backs.
the desire for my last first kiss..
The line where she says "When it comes to you I wouldn't change a thing
I wouldn't even change the things I could change
Cause baby your perfect, perfect to me
Simply means that you are perfect for me" (PURE GENIUS!)
that I am somehow coming into my "femininity" again.
wasn't "Femininity" by Eric Benet a GREAT song???
at peace with the decisions I've made and NOT made.

Not Feeling

That I got this wack bum ankle and CANT wear the new shoes I got
That I cant run with said bum ankle
That I have no one to nurse me back to health...a male nurse specifically
Like I know how to talk to the opposite sex anymore
No one gets my joke and humor.
I cant read for 'leisure" anymore. So much school pressure!
How this season of Glee has started out
That Law and Order SVU is real dry
But they wont bring back Law and Order CI...that was my show
Although I pamper myself...a LOT..I sure would like someone to appreciate it.
Boobs are overrated (esp in the black community)
That sagging pants wont die.
Lipstick tattoos
Black men without facial hair. I dont trust you. You need more people.
Im tired of girls shaving one side of their head. We get it. You're a "risk taker" *yawn*
birth control. Im getting too old and lazy to take it. And esp right now it's pointless.
people have this odd perception of me as being "overly" concerned w/ the opposite sex. Trust me..it just makes for good writing.:)
that because of that...Imma have to censor myself. That's not good.
creepy married men who blog who I am sure beat off to my pictures and videos. (LOL)
how envy can get the best of nice people....and Im talking about me.
the idea that my last kiss was with an real asshole. *smh*
and if I died tomorrow, knowing I kissed him last, is the worst thing ever. UGH!

Give Away #3: Pure Romance Smooth Operator

As you all know..I am a definite supporter of fun and safe sexual activities and health.... And if you are also like me, you also know how to please yourself.....and spice things up with your partner. If you don't have a partner, a good ol' B.O.B. surely comes in handy. I've definitely sang the praises of my B.O.B from time to time ( see previous post )...and heck...I even did a video about it. See for yourself : Sex and the Southern Belle is proud to present Give Away #3..and have teamed up with Alica Beckford-Husband of Pure Romance by Alicia to give away something a lot of us single sisters surely do need....your own personal "B.O.B" called The Smooth Operator- a GLASS vibrator. I giggled with delight because I LOVE glass vibrators and trust me ladies, this one will provide hours of fun!!! Sophisticated. Sexy. Smooth! Each Smooth Operator is made by hand of sleek glass with a stripe that adds texture and a curved end that hits the spot. Use it on its ow...

Frat Boys, Toxic Masculinity and the #METOO Movement

(scene from Spike Lee's famous School Daze) A few weeks ago, my sorority held its national convention on New Orleans. Coincidently, another fraternity was also holding their national convention in New Orleans. Naturally, the jokes, mostly in jest, played upon the fact that these two groups, full of single, attractive and smart folks would be "on the prowl" and looking to "hook up" in the city known for its strong drinks, Southern heat, and hospitality. It was all jokes until nastiness decided to rear its ugly head. You had men in the other fraternity sexually harassing and being obscene to my sorority sisters who just wanted to have fun and handle the business of the sorority (and network.. and yes.. meet men in a somewhat safe space). There were stories of men groping women. Men saying disgusting things and then being like "Well fuck you then" if women rejected them. You would HOPE and think that college-educated men wouldn't act this w...

Kandi Burrus Launches Sex Toy Line

Kandi Burruss promotes her new Bedroom Kandi toy line at Shout Sept. 1, 2011. PHOTO CREDIT: Rodney Ho/rho@ajc.com Former Lead Singer of Xscape and Real Housewives of Atlanta cast member singer/songwriter Kandi Burruss recently launched her own line of sex toys. Kandi said she was inspired by Dr. Laura Berman (whose products I have also reviewed as well).... Kandi looking curvy and fab at her product launch party this past September. The line, entitled "Bedroom Kandi by Kandi Burruss", introduces women to luxury sex toys that are sleek, discrete, and gorgeous with cute little names and "adapters". Lots of products resemble women's items such as lipstick or compacts! Partnering with OhMiBod (famous for their Ipod/Vibrator combination) and designer Matthew Pung , Kandi has launched some pretty "hot" products "Happiness and Joy" vibrator "Kandi Kisses" lipstick vibrator I love that Kandi is branching out into other areas besi...

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