Feeling/Not Feeling: Short and Sweet

(These brothers are sharp...courtesy of Andre' Kardashian's Pinterest Board)

FEELING

MAXWELL IS COMING!! 2 nights, all the albums IN FULL, Phillips Arena!
Free stuff with coupons
Themed Food nights. Fridays are usually Tacos for me. Or Fish. Or Pizza.
Michael Ealy and his sex scenes in "Think Like A Man"
I like odd things like Full Lips w/ Green Eyes. Or Freckles on dark skinned folks. Or real negro features on SUPER light people. That's so dope and unusual
Pinterest (that bears repeating)
men who read books. enjoy reading books. it's sexy
My upcoming Tango class
girls who have ownership of their curves
being curvy but FIT
planning pretend weddings.
dapper dressed men...(.and no...it's not "gay". it's just high fashion. i wish more men knew that!)
Marc Jacobs
Tom Ford
like i deserve to be adored. everyday. every second of every minute of every hour of everyday. Not obsessively..but enough to where I deserve a damn phone call once or twice a day
Usher's "Climax"
Brandy's new album...

NOT FEELING

dating sites and who they pick as your 80% and above matches. These men are not men I could take home to my mama. Why? Cause they are unsightly. While I am not big on the physical, I don't need to squint or put a paper bag over your head to be with you. At all! Fuckability is key, ya'll.
your bad spelling is such a turnoff. Granted I am not the best speller but if you misspell basic words like "you"....then we have a problem. A BIG one.
THEN the ones who reject you make it seem so arbitrary. "Uhm..on your profile it says you wanna have sex 3-5 times a week. I need EVERYDAY. sorry. We aren't a match!" HUH?? *scratches head*
Why do I even bother??? Why? Cause I am a sucker for the possibilty of love and romance.
WHY? ~~cause when I thought~~ ............anyway *DELETE*
I need a date to the Maxwell concert. Alas...it'll prob be me and my girl
That's no fun. I'd be too aroused...and uhm..I do not swing that way...LMAO!
All my friends have "spring time boos".....not i. *smh*
I have SUCH an odd looking face. At one point, I had considered rhinoplasty. I am dead serious.
Unnecessary lies. You didn't have to lie about take a woman on a trip with you. We aint together, homie.
going to the gynecologist. She assaults me. I don't mean physically (lol). It's a mental assault "Sooo...you are getting older...do you want BC or will you be getting pregnant?" *sigh* Just draining.
Usher needs to make more "ballads"
wanted
needed
adored..even though I know I deserve it. Adoring myself...gets old :)
like I wanna add anymore to this list. /FIN.

Give Away #3: Pure Romance Smooth Operator

As you all know..I am a definite supporter of fun and safe sexual activities and health.... And if you are also like me, you also know how to please yourself.....and spice things up with your partner. If you don't have a partner, a good ol' B.O.B. surely comes in handy. I've definitely sang the praises of my B.O.B from time to time ( see previous post )...and heck...I even did a video about it. See for yourself : Sex and the Southern Belle is proud to present Give Away #3..and have teamed up with Alica Beckford-Husband of Pure Romance by Alicia to give away something a lot of us single sisters surely do need....your own personal "B.O.B" called The Smooth Operator- a GLASS vibrator. I giggled with delight because I LOVE glass vibrators and trust me ladies, this one will provide hours of fun!!! Sophisticated. Sexy. Smooth! Each Smooth Operator is made by hand of sleek glass with a stripe that adds texture and a curved end that hits the spot. Use it on its ow...

Frat Boys, Toxic Masculinity and the #METOO Movement

(scene from Spike Lee's famous School Daze) A few weeks ago, my sorority held its national convention on New Orleans. Coincidently, another fraternity was also holding their national convention in New Orleans. Naturally, the jokes, mostly in jest, played upon the fact that these two groups, full of single, attractive and smart folks would be "on the prowl" and looking to "hook up" in the city known for its strong drinks, Southern heat, and hospitality. It was all jokes until nastiness decided to rear its ugly head. You had men in the other fraternity sexually harassing and being obscene to my sorority sisters who just wanted to have fun and handle the business of the sorority (and network.. and yes.. meet men in a somewhat safe space). There were stories of men groping women. Men saying disgusting things and then being like "Well fuck you then" if women rejected them. You would HOPE and think that college-educated men wouldn't act this w...

Kandi Burrus Launches Sex Toy Line

Kandi Burruss promotes her new Bedroom Kandi toy line at Shout Sept. 1, 2011. PHOTO CREDIT: Rodney Ho/rho@ajc.com Former Lead Singer of Xscape and Real Housewives of Atlanta cast member singer/songwriter Kandi Burruss recently launched her own line of sex toys. Kandi said she was inspired by Dr. Laura Berman (whose products I have also reviewed as well).... Kandi looking curvy and fab at her product launch party this past September. The line, entitled "Bedroom Kandi by Kandi Burruss", introduces women to luxury sex toys that are sleek, discrete, and gorgeous with cute little names and "adapters". Lots of products resemble women's items such as lipstick or compacts! Partnering with OhMiBod (famous for their Ipod/Vibrator combination) and designer Matthew Pung , Kandi has launched some pretty "hot" products "Happiness and Joy" vibrator "Kandi Kisses" lipstick vibrator I love that Kandi is branching out into other areas besi...

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