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Feeling/Not Feeling:

FEELING

  • I have an alcoholic drink named after me! (No lie...). I'll have to post the recipe if the person allows me to ( they probably wont...LOL)
  • Subtweets that aren't vicious..
  • "Skype" dates.....
  • bills paid off
  • God is still in the blessing business
  • accidentally falling into "happiness"
  • Cancun and counting...
  • Kissing in the rain.
  • running and jumping into someone's arms
  • how GREAT the questions are you ask me.
  • Basquiat...
  • Beyond Scared Straight is hilarious
  • edgy shoes with dope hardware
  • the dentist. yeah...i am obsessed with my teeth
  • private jokes
  • talking quietly and saying everything
  • slouchy boots (and I used to hate them)
  • football season
  • black rimmed glasses
  • red lingerie
  • making a conscious decision after my divorce to NEVER post about my relationships on FB (it's easier to be slick on Twitter)
  • accidental happiness (Yeah..I said it twice!)
  • romantic reggae songs...
  • I think I need to visit Jamaica
  • #BLISSISYOURBIRTHRIGHT is gonna be a Movement!




Not Feeling
  • passive aggressiveness pussy bitchassness. We left that alone in the 5th grade, yo!
  • broken promises
  • shoes that look great...and when you get them..are mad uncomfortable.
  • people who hurt children or the elderly....
  • Anyone who finds Lisa Lampinelli funny
  • how lame the Twitter trending topics have been
  • my self-imposed "shoe" diet. Oh well...
  • how bad I am about replying to posts...
  • why isn't birth control of ALL types free?
  • I keep getting acid reflux at night
  • football season is over. WTF! *sigh*
  • Being far away from someone you care about
  • talking loudly and saying NOTHING.
  • I cant find a messenger bag that doesnt' make me look like a Lilith Fair participant.
  • One Size Fits All doesn't mean big girls can wear it.
  • Im not athletic worth a damn!
  • intimidation tactics
  • homophobic reggae songs
  • speaking of which...I dont like the religious station my co-worker plays at work. It's super conservative and just crazy!
  • assumptions about your character. Bitch you don't know me
  • egomaniacal family members. Jesus...*smh*
  • when Skype drops your call for no damn reason
  • accidental happiness.....cause I'm scared :)

Comments

  1. Bills paid off! Get it girl! Now what's the feel like, i wouldnt know? lol.

    I agree that birth control should be free.

    Im not athletic at all either, never have been and never will be.

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  2. TheMochaPeach2/6/12, 10:29 AM

    @Yaki..it is a great feeling re: bills being paid off

    I think Obama is trying to pass legistlation that BC must be free, basic pills at least.

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