Feeling/Not Feeling

Feeling

secret admirers
argyle anything: sweaters, tights, scarfs...I LOVE some argyle
Chinese buffet w/ all you can eat crab legs (YUMMMM)
this detox...I feel lighter..relaxed...centered
surprises that make me giddy
that people actually read my little ol' blog...and I appreciate the love! *hugs*
Men in the following Fall ensemble: cashmere v-neck sweater, dress shirt, tie, slacks and a slip on Kenneth Cole/Cole Haan shoes...MERCY! *fans self* Just pick me up off the floor now!
Modern Family (LOVE that show...)
Mayer Hawthorne. GET THIS ALBUM!
the fact that I have readers and watchers of the vlogs that just surprise me! :)
the fact that Kanye is gonna come with the heat....controversy and all
the semester is ALMOST OVER!
Marsha Ambrosius and THIS DAMN SONG!
that smart is still sexy to some guys...there's still hope!

Not Feeling

that out of the 8 years of his presidency..W thought that Kanye's "Bush dont care about black folks" was his lowers moment? So we blaming it on the brother again huh?
to be honest..I havent learned a damn thing in the classes I'm taking *shrug*
the fact that "the mentally challenged" can now be added the the list of men who approach me. WTF! So 50 Tyson likes to hit on me too? ugh
Also add Thugnificent and his patna dem to that list as well
unrequited love
being so bored with my look
the fact that this detox has some rather unpleasant bathroom moments (TMI..I know!)
people not making their intentions known UP FRONT! Wasting my daggone time!
men who move TOO SLOW OR move in their head...as in their actions dont match their feelings.
the fact that I am so shy around the opposite sex.
that Undercovers got cancelled AND Boris is in tax trouble..thats so sad! *sigh*
having to break out the space heater so early! Brrrr!
Men who are TOO into feet. What kinda of a sicko, weirdo are you? LOL
Taylor Swift. She's pretty turrible.
singers these days sing TOO SOFT. Where are the HARD singing brothers??

Give Away #3: Pure Romance Smooth Operator

As you all know..I am a definite supporter of fun and safe sexual activities and health.... And if you are also like me, you also know how to please yourself.....and spice things up with your partner. If you don't have a partner, a good ol' B.O.B. surely comes in handy. I've definitely sang the praises of my B.O.B from time to time ( see previous post )...and heck...I even did a video about it. See for yourself : Sex and the Southern Belle is proud to present Give Away #3..and have teamed up with Alica Beckford-Husband of Pure Romance by Alicia to give away something a lot of us single sisters surely do need....your own personal "B.O.B" called The Smooth Operator- a GLASS vibrator. I giggled with delight because I LOVE glass vibrators and trust me ladies, this one will provide hours of fun!!! Sophisticated. Sexy. Smooth! Each Smooth Operator is made by hand of sleek glass with a stripe that adds texture and a curved end that hits the spot. Use it on its ow...

Frat Boys, Toxic Masculinity and the #METOO Movement

(scene from Spike Lee's famous School Daze) A few weeks ago, my sorority held its national convention on New Orleans. Coincidently, another fraternity was also holding their national convention in New Orleans. Naturally, the jokes, mostly in jest, played upon the fact that these two groups, full of single, attractive and smart folks would be "on the prowl" and looking to "hook up" in the city known for its strong drinks, Southern heat, and hospitality. It was all jokes until nastiness decided to rear its ugly head. You had men in the other fraternity sexually harassing and being obscene to my sorority sisters who just wanted to have fun and handle the business of the sorority (and network.. and yes.. meet men in a somewhat safe space). There were stories of men groping women. Men saying disgusting things and then being like "Well fuck you then" if women rejected them. You would HOPE and think that college-educated men wouldn't act this w...

Kandi Burrus Launches Sex Toy Line

Kandi Burruss promotes her new Bedroom Kandi toy line at Shout Sept. 1, 2011. PHOTO CREDIT: Rodney Ho/rho@ajc.com Former Lead Singer of Xscape and Real Housewives of Atlanta cast member singer/songwriter Kandi Burruss recently launched her own line of sex toys. Kandi said she was inspired by Dr. Laura Berman (whose products I have also reviewed as well).... Kandi looking curvy and fab at her product launch party this past September. The line, entitled "Bedroom Kandi by Kandi Burruss", introduces women to luxury sex toys that are sleek, discrete, and gorgeous with cute little names and "adapters". Lots of products resemble women's items such as lipstick or compacts! Partnering with OhMiBod (famous for their Ipod/Vibrator combination) and designer Matthew Pung , Kandi has launched some pretty "hot" products "Happiness and Joy" vibrator "Kandi Kisses" lipstick vibrator I love that Kandi is branching out into other areas besi...

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