Feeling/Not Feeling

Feeling

All Things Wonder Woman
Getting back into the running swing of things
I'm almost at my hair goal of "WLH" (waist-length hair). That's amazing..almost 8 years of growing locs...
How AMAZING Jennifer Hudson looked and how fly she was at ANY size.....and she was confident with it.
Just living my life without any regrets
Obtaining some goals I've been putting off for years
Living a life with no fear
Kiehl's Mango Lipbalm
Wii FIT
My mother's getting stronger everyday..I see it.
Making new friends..you are never too old to make a new friend.
I want to get have a relationship..but right now..I kinda LIKE being alone for a while. I'm at peace. I can eat Nutella alone (LOL).
A new cell phone...ASAP
How nice my place is being decorated.....
Still believing that marriage is for sure worth it.
Being selfish...and right now thats a GOOD thing.

Not Feeling

People not recognizing the difference between "THICK" and "FAT". I'm thick. Not Obese. Gabby Sidibe is FAT/OBESE, not thick. I dunno WHY some people think if you fall in the THICK category you are fat. WRONG.
People not understanding that relationships evolve...respect it.
now that my hair IS longer...I'm so bored with it...*sigh*. Maybe a new color for spring/summer will cheer me up.
Weirdos (that's all encompassing)
Wanting to be a mother..but feeling like that opportunity won't happen until I am damn near 40.
Not having the time to cook
Weight Watchers point system confuses me..but I'm just slow I guess
How Janet Jackson's tickets were sold out in a matter of minutes!! :(
Dating: I just can't do it anymore. I can't.
Making people a priority....when they make you an option
One word conversations. Just dont even bother talking to me.....
Feeling alone but not lonely...big difference.
if one more joker with 50-Leven hundert chullins approaches me..Imma throw myself off the state campital building.
not knowing HOW to cook for one. I've tried but I just cant so....I end up freezing everything (LOL).

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