Sex and The Southern Belle

(image from ClipArt.com )  " What about the man?", he said "Huh?? What about the guy??"  I shrug..slowly chewing my steak. "What if HE wants a wedding??? What if he wants that experience?", he said as he raised an eyebrow. "Wow..well I never thought ouf that...". I went silent. "Yes. What if he wants his family and friends to experience that? It doesn't have to be all big and extravagant. Something small and intimate, even?, he declared. I was sitting there in shock. Finally I said, "So...Men want weddings?? Hmpf..." "Yes...if he's never been married.... He wants that "feeling" too. Why are you punishing the next guy for something someone else did? Or turned you off from?", he said it kinda low, taking another bite of his chicken. I sat dumbfounded across from my guy friend at our nice, intimate dinner. We had been having a conversation about marriage, brought on mostly by our 20 year old waitress w...

*sigh*...ya know...this song pretty much epitomizes what the fuck is wrong with OUR (and I include myself) generation of people.. First off..he opens the song with...." I love pussy...but I don't love these women. I refuse to be in a committed relationship...because I don't like that shit" *sigh*.  I guess he's honest.  *shrug*. Given that Rocko is a b-rated artist who had not one, but 2 kids by Monica without marrying her..(and praise GOD for her having good sense to move on and GET MARRIED to a man who'd take her and her kids...instead of calling some fake, weak ass chump her "husband".), it doesn't surprise me that he'd make a song like this. If I was a betting woman, I'd bet that this was "Monica-inspired". I'm sure he said "Girl..I know we got 2 kids, live together, and all dat sh*t...but we don't go together. We ain't committed.".. Da hayle??? Then this terd....(in the song)... He said he just...

NOTE: This was supposed to be a video blog. But after I actually recorded it...I realized it got way too personal than I wanted it to be. SO…settle for the written word. First off, let me say this isn’t a personal attack on anyone. Now that I’ve gotten that out of the way… I am a grown woman. I’ve been grown since I got my period; I was 13 or maybe 14, moved from a training bra to a size C cup in one single summer. Therefore, nothing makes me more irked and irritated than when someone (esp. a MAN) calls me “cute”.   I haven’t been cute in a VERY long time. Cute is for babies and puppies. (aww..isn't that cute !!!!..............*crickets* ) I’m sure folks mean well. I think, as a friend pointed out, most guys are trying to be respectful out of the gate. If they hit you with the “sexy” off the jump...then of course the focus is on sex.... Therefore, if he wants more, he’ll use more respectful words. Being respectful…That’s all fine and well. But if you are man that is trying to get...

I can't sleep I toss and turn Lie awake in my bed I reach for my phone Looking through the photographs I come across the one I took of you The mischievous one Where you did that thing with your hands.. Late night Your hands Which had earlier caressed the depths of me And penetrated my layers until I was a soft, tender heat Were now placed strategically near the top of your jeans Exposing just a little of that well carved "v" in your hips.. Shirtless Caramel Adonis glowing I knew the moment I took it What seemed like a silly photograph then... I was gone Smitten by your charms. You at that moment possessed me Beguiling and devilish   With a grin I smirked and thought   "You sexy bastard.. You knew all along what you're doing..." I lie here now Awake Staring at this photograph Seduced at a snapshot Taken as spontaneously as you had taken my depths With a click And a flash Instant memory Of beauty divine That I have the pleasur...