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Feeling/ Not Feeling: The Slacker Edition

(Madame..wtf is this bedazzled mess????)


Feeling


  • Apologetic. I am so sorry for not at least putting ONE solitary word on this blog in weeks. Truth is. I have been busy.
  • Like like if changing rapidly. What happened? One minute I was eating Nutella out the jar in my drawers on a Friday night...and now there are a pair of size 15 shoes at my front door.
  • He's awesome though :)
  • My mama is in better health
  • Life is good and I can't complain..for the most part.
  • my life is RAPIDLY changing
  • nude, naked makeup
  • flats more than heels these days
  • People who ignore your needs
  • Wigs. I have purchased like 4 wigs lately. I am not abandoning my locs but wigs make for fun. easy transitions.
  • my family. the love and support and prayers. It's for real. I am really family oriented.
  • my wish box is full...for real :) so is my heart.
  • weekend trips to go see my girls. DC is my second home.
  • like i should do a give-away soon....real soon



Not Feeling

  • Kim Kardashian's pregnancy wardrobe. I mean what the ENTIRE fugg?? I mean I am no Kim K fan by a long shot because she makes some POOR life choices..but I would never say she LOOKED bad. But now that she is pregnant and letting a man who wears leather kilts dress her, she looks a mess! Dress for the new body, baby...not the old.
  • Then folks had the NERVE to say I was hating on her and throw a little lightweight shade saying "Well..let's hope you look fly when you're pregnant".  Look here..a mess is a mess. smh
  • the weather is Psycho! Is it spring or winter? Cmon now. The Groundhog lied.
  • Gay bashing and Gay shaming. We cant and shouldnt SHAME folks into coming out the closet! We cant! What kinda bullcrap is that? ANd the fact that black folks (esp women) do it the most irks my soul. Hollering "he's gay anyway" if he breaks up with you is unnecessary. You prob wasn't sh*t in the first place. LOL.
  • I can't wear shorts. My thighs....ugh.
  • Nicki Minaj on Idol is pointless.
  • American Idol is now pointless. lol
  • like i have an office friend. my closest friend in the office lost her battle w/ cancer last month. I am beyond sad.
  • which brings me to being bored w/ workouts. I am about to switch it up w/ boxing though. I am s amped!
  • creative. when is the last time i wrote something creative
  • this Phd process. Some major foolywangness! For realz! I am confuzzled and perplexed.
  • parents getting old. makes me sad
  • weddings. omg. i am just over them. lol. the expense.  the time. the EXPENSE (can I say that again! ). I dont wanna BE in another wedding. Not ever. Not my own. Not a friends. Let me just pay for a gift and KIM....
  • I will NOT be going to see that new Tyler Perry movie. It seems troubling the more I think about it. Eh...I'm good.

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